Man resigns to take care of seriously injured his ex-wife

"Divorce, stop coming to me!" For modern people, it may have become a normal state. After a divorce, after all, in law, two people who were originally married are no longer obligated. However, Ms. Lu, who lives in Nanjing Houzaimen, suffered a serious car accident three years ago. When she almost became a vegetative man, her ex-husband Wang Jianxun extended her assistance. Eight days after Ms. Lv was in critical condition, Wang Jianxun stayed with her and she even quit her job to look after her. At that time, he thought very simply that his ex-wife had become such a way that he could no longer influence his daughter and take care of his ex-wife and daughter. This was the responsibility of a man. After 2% of the survival rate after a car accident, he took care of the eyes for 3 days and 3 nights, and his ex-wife survived; 70% chance of survival became vegetative.

A car accident in divorce one year reconnects them

His ex-wife was suddenly hit by a serious coma

Ms. Wang Jianxun and Ms. Lv divorced in 2008. Since Wang Jianxun’s income from working is not high, Wang Jianxun proposed to give the family’s two houses to the mother and her daughter. Then, Ms. Lu, who was still earning well, raised her daughter Xiao Yu (a pseudonym). But the two houses are in one unit, the mother and daughter live on the second floor, and Wang Jianxun lives on the fifth floor. After the divorce, both parties did not remarry. After divorce, everyone lived in peace. But one night in April 2009, Wang Jianxun, who was about to take a rest, suddenly received a phone call from his daughter Xiaoyu, saying that the mother had been hit by a phone call from the hospital. And she was so anxious that she didn’t know what to do. She could only call Daddy. Wang Jianxun immediately found his daughter to the hospital. Ms. Lu was hit very hard at the time. She had been given five or six critical notices because of brain damage.

"My ex-wife was very seriously injured and was injured in the brainstem. He was unconscious for 8 days before and after. In order to look after her, I didn't close my eyes for 3 days and 3 nights. The doctor told me that her chance of survival was only about 2%, but the end She survived, and my daughter and I were very happy for her.” Wang Jianxun spoke of the scene three years ago and still has a lot of regrets.

He resigned to take care of his ex-wife and daughter

When his ex-wife was hit so badly that he could not leave his side, Wang Jianxun quit his job as a worker and took his daughter back to his side. He took care of his seriously injured wife and took care of the school daughter every day. Mother and daughter held up for a while.

When asked by the reporter why he was so caring about his injured ex-wife, he told the reporter that Ms. Lu's mother was older, and that her two older brothers were in the field and one was very busy, so it was not too bothersome for them. At that time, Wang Jianxun only thought that her mother had become like this. She must not be affected by her mother's injury, affect her children's schooling, affect her child's future, and take care of the mother and daughter. He is the responsibility of a man.

After three years of guarding, he let his ex-wife get up again.

In order to facilitate care, he received his ex-wife from his mother’s home.

She took her 5 hours of exercise every day and her ex-wife stayed in bed for 3 years without muscle atrophy.

Yesterday, the reporter saw Wang Jianxun’s daughter Xiao Yu and talked about his father’s care for his mother for the past three years. His daughter gave an evaluation: “My dad has indeed done quite a lot over the past three years.” To enable her daughter to read the book, In the past three years, Wang Jianxun has hardly let his daughter do too much for his mother. Now that her daughter is graduating at a financial school and she is facing employment pressure to find a job, Wang Jianxun said that she would not let her daughter worry about her mother.

Ms. Lu was discharged from the hospital early this year. Wang Jianxun received Ms. Lv’s mother’s home because the old lady’s home was on the first floor, so Ms. Lu could not walk in and out. "I'm taking her (Ms. Lu) every day for 5 hours, getting up at 5 am for 2 hours, going to 2 hours for 3 hours, and 1 hour before going to bed. These include giving her a massage and training her蹲 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 扭 ” ” ” ” ” ” ” 建 建 建 建 建 建 建 建 ” ” 建 ” 建 建 建 建 建 王 建 建 建 王 建 建 建 建 建 王 建 王 建 建 建There is no muscle contraction in the whole body. This is something that I am proud of.” Under Wang Jianxun’s meticulous care, Ms. Lu’s illness recovered very quickly. Originally doctors began to say that Ms. Lu’s chance of surviving after a car accident was only 2%, but Ms. Lu lived; doctors later said that Ms. Lu’s chance of becoming a vegetative person was 70%, but Ms. Lu’s success regained consciousness; It was said that Ms. Lv could hardly stand up again, but Ms. Lu has now been trained and she has begun to try to practice walking with the help of a device.

For the former wife to treat illness, the family already has more than 100,000 debts

In order to help his ex-wife recover medical expenses, he brought the perpetrators to court.

Ms. Lu is now discharged from the hospital and lives in the home of Wang Jianxun’s mother. In fact, when Ms. Lu was discharged from hospital, she was not physically recovered to need no hospitalization, but because the family had no money, she couldn't afford a hospital. Wang Jianxun could only take Ms. Lu back to her mother’s home and asked the mother to take care of her. Also save money for nanny.

“She (Ms. Lv) has changed her medical care in four hospitals before and after. When there are many, there are a total of 700 yuan for the hospitalization fee plus medical expenses, nursing fees and drug charges. By the beginning of this year, we really couldn’t afford to live. "Wang Jianxun told reporters. Originally, when Ms. Lu began hospitalization, the perpetrator Mr. Park (a pseudonym) was still actively paying for related medical expenses, but soon after Ms. Lu transferred to the second hospital, Mr. Park refused to pay Ms. Lu’s medical expenses. . After the other party refused to pay, Wang Jianxun had no choice but to find relatives and friends to borrow money to save his urgency. Because he can only take care of Ms. Lu at home and can not go out to work, the monthly minimum subsidy of 300 yuan of income, and Ms. Lu's injury sickness back to get the salvage salary of 1,100 yuan.

In order to treat Ms. Lu, the family is now in debt of more than 100,000 yuan. In order to recover medical expenses, he had to sue the perpetrators to the court. The court sentenced the perpetrator, Mr. Park, to pay Ms. Lu for medical expenses of RMB 110,000, but the other party did not implement it. In order to pay medical expenses for her ex-wife, Wang Jianxun came to the house of Mr. Park to ask him to pay the relevant fees when he passed the judgment of the Chinese New Year in 2010. However, he did not expect the other party to call Wang Jianxun’s private house and call the police when they arrived. Wang Jianxun took out the court's verdict. The police officers saw the verdict, and Mr. Park taught him a meal. Mr. Park had no choice but to use 40,000 yuan for Wang Jianxun.

Ask for help from legal aid and help ex-wife get 680,000 compensation

Only the perpetrator did not show up, and the compensation amount was too late for him to worry.

Seeing the other party’s indifference to compensation and the difficulties of their own families, Wang Jianxun found Ms. Lu’s legal aid center in February this year to ask for help. After learning about the status of Ms. Lu, the Legal Aid Center attached great importance and assigned two lawyers to assist Ms. Lv in this case. As the facts are clear and the evidence is conclusive, the Final Xuanwu Court convicted the defendant Mr. Park in April of this year to compensate Ms. Lv for the disability compensation, nursing fees, medical expenses and other 680,000 yuan.

However, up to now, the defendant has remained indifferent to the compensation and has not contacted Wang Jianxun. “I just hope that the other party can give us the money earlier and let me give her medical expenses owed by Ms. Lu earlier, so that her child’s days will be better, but the other person hasn’t played the phone until now. One to me. And our family's patients are producing expenses every day. It really pressures me to be a little breathless.” Wang Jianxun told reporters.

After experiencing so much, will they remarry?

He said: "When she can take care of her life, I will give her back to her daughter so that their mothers and daughters will live their days well. I have also come to work to make money and support myself."

“She was able to return to what she is now. It was also a miracle. I was very happy for her. But even though she had recovered consciousness, because her brain was seriously damaged, my memory was seriously damaged, and even we were divorced and could not remember it. When I filed a lawsuit to ask her for medical expenses, I told her that I did not want to tell her anymore,” said Wang Jianxun. Now, every morning, Wang Jianxun will push Ms. Lv to go to a nearby small park to exercise. Some acquaintances and old neighbors don't know that they are divorced. They watch Ms. Lu’s body get better every day. They all say that Ms. Lu has found a good husband. Every time people hear people say this, Wang Jianxun just smiles and does not excuse...

Wang Jianxun took care of his ex-wife Ms. Lu. Even others misunderstood whether they were husband and wife. The reporter couldn't help thinking that they couldn't be together again in the future. The reporter then embarrassedly asked Wang Jianxun. “If Ms. Lv slowly recovers, will you still take care of her around her?” After listening to the reporter’s questions, Wang Jianxun thought about smiling and saying, “When she can take care of herself, I I returned her to my daughter and let their mothers better their days. I also went to work to make money and support myself."

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